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MCA Wanita Chief YB Datuk Ng Yen Yen was quoted by major Chinese press today as advising women to dress in sexy see-through suit and applying perfumes when sleeping with hubbies.
She said that women should not be shy to do that as men tends to be flirting and are easily attracted by other women. She further said that if women simply dress up themselves, they will be like “yellow-faced” women which will drive their hubbies away.
What I wish to say is that Ng Yen Yen has both undermined the wisdom of women and men when she claimed that men tends to flirt around.
Need not to deny, each couple has their own way of getting along with each other. Ng Yen Yen’s belief that women should dress up themselves sexily to make themselves attractive to their husbands is something outrageous and ridiculous. It in itself is a humiliation towards the women. We cannot blame if this come out from some conservative political leaders but we cannot accept that this comes from MCA Wanita Chief.
Secondly, Ng Yen Yen’s claim is equally unfair to men as not all men flirt. This is soley her subjective view but is it true to all men? Is it even true to all women and to all couples?
Thirdly, instead of worrying over husbands-and-wives relations, why not she concentrate on how to uplift women status in nation building, particularly when we are moving into 2008. I believe each woman know best how to get along with their husband and Ng Yen Yen needs not to worry for them.